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Women who date married men!Cheating on one's mate is not a new phenomena. And I won't even get in to what happens to a marriage or relationship when one is caught cheating. We all know that usually means someone's getting their butt booted from the house. What I want to know is, when a guy -- or a woman, for that matter -- decides to step outside their marriage, what is the criteria they are looking for in the person they plan to cheat with? I realize that sometimes extra-marital affairs happen just out of a physical attraction to another person. But there are those who .......... go to http://www.infidelitycatcher.com to read the rest. God Bless! In my situation, he was very lonely, felt neglected, not listened to, not treated like a parnter, and unfulfilled sexually. Yes, I was vulnerable, too, but he sought me out and we did, indeed fall in love. When he was "caught" he told his wife that I gave him three things she didn't 1) I listened to him, 2) I talked to him, and 3) I made him feel desireable. Not all of us who had an affair are homewreckers. We were overcome with guilt and I released him, then his wife found out. If married women would be good wives, good partners, good lovers, then their husbands wouldn't come looking for someone. It is NOT solely the fault of the other person, the wives are the ones that leave them unfulfilled and vulnerable. krzgirl wrote:
Did you ask him if perhaps he abused his wife? If perhaps she was lonely, neglected, unfulfilled? Maybe even her life threatened? Or would all that be irrelevant to your romantic fog? As they say in the courts Hear Both Sides. Good luck to both of you - may you marry and reap what might eventually come to be the same treatment for each other in the future. Erin Infidelity Catcher wrote:
I sincerely believe that it is sexual attraction FIRST and all the eulogisms, rationalizations, justifications, blaming the spouse, etc. come later. It if were not that, the unhappy spouse would leave the marriage precisely for the reasons that are used as justificationsk, with no love interest in the picture. Erin "krzgirl" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
And if he chooses you over her, what will you have? A guy who will lie and cheat on you with whoever else he finds more desireable, w/o the decency or conscience to 'fess up and end it with you. And if he doesn't, then you're just a f*ck-buddy. Good luck, either way. Featured pages: Ahora las chicas! Probeert deze groente wijzer te worden? (7) Trashy Utah Fans Hulladek... 419 del giorno Chris Phillips - My Monster Performer IT portal NFL Head Coach tomorrow Die Lehre des Buddah archiwum grupy w mysql-u PBS magazine article CoCoon 6 / Krefeld Selby 8:41pm Even the base coaches suck now Lyon |