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  • From: Infidelity Catcher
  • Date: 27-12-2007

Cheating on one's mate is not a new phenomena. And I won't even get in
to what happens to a marriage or relationship when one is caught
cheating. We all know that usually means someone's getting their butt
booted from the house. What I want to know is, when a guy -- or a
woman, for that matter -- decides to step outside their marriage, what
is the criteria they are looking for in the person they plan to cheat
with? I realize that sometimes extra-marital affairs happen just out
of a physical attraction to another person. But there are those
who ..........
go to http://www.infidelitycatcher.com to read the rest.

God Bless!
  • From: krzgirl
  • Date: 28-12-2007
In my situation, he was very lonely, felt neglected, not listened to,
not treated like a parnter, and unfulfilled sexually. Yes, I was
vulnerable, too, but he sought me out and we did, indeed fall in love.
When he was "caught" he told his wife that I gave him three things she
didn't 1) I listened to him, 2) I talked to him, and 3) I made him
feel desireable.

Not all of us who had an affair are homewreckers. We were overcome
with guilt and I released him, then his wife found out. If married
women would be good wives, good partners, good lovers, then their
husbands wouldn't come looking for someone. It is NOT solely the fault
of the other person, the wives are the ones that leave them
unfulfilled and vulnerable.

  • From: Erin
  • Date: 28-12-2007
krzgirl wrote:

In my situation, he was very lonely, felt neglected, not listened to,
not treated like a parnter, and unfulfilled sexually. Yes, I was
vulnerable, too, but he sought me out and we did, indeed fall in love.
When he was "caught" he told his wife that I gave him three things she
didn't 1) I listened to him, 2) I talked to him, and 3) I made him
feel desireable.

Not all of us who had an affair are homewreckers. We were overcome
with guilt and I released him, then his wife found out. If married
women would be good wives, good partners, good lovers, then their
husbands wouldn't come looking for someone. It is NOT solely the fault
of the other person, the wives are the ones that leave them
unfulfilled and vulnerable.


Did you ask him if perhaps he abused his wife? If perhaps she was
lonely,
neglected, unfulfilled? Maybe even her life threatened? Or would all
that be irrelevant to your romantic fog? As they say in the courts

Hear Both Sides.

Good luck to both of you - may you marry and reap what
might eventually come to be the same treatment for each
other in the future.

Erin

  • From: Erin
  • Date: 28-12-2007
Infidelity Catcher wrote:

Cheating on one's mate is not a new phenomena. And I won't even get in
to what happens to a marriage or relationship when one is caught
cheating. We all know that usually means someone's getting their butt
booted from the house. What I want to know is, when a guy -- or a
woman, for that matter -- decides to step outside their marriage, what
is the criteria they are looking for in the person they plan to cheat
with? I realize that sometimes extra-marital affairs happen just out
of a physical attraction to another person. But there are those
who ..........
go to http://www.infidelitycatcher.com to read the rest.

God Bless!


I sincerely believe that it is sexual attraction FIRST and all
the eulogisms, rationalizations, justifications, blaming
the spouse, etc. come later. It if were not that, the
unhappy spouse would leave the marriage precisely
for the reasons that are used as justificationsk, with no
love interest in the picture.

Erin

  • From: Rog
  • Date: 28-12-2007
"krzgirl" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

In my situation, he was very lonely, felt neglected, not listened to,
not treated like a parnter, and unfulfilled sexually. Yes, I was
vulnerable, too, but he sought me out and we did, indeed fall in love.
<snip>


And if he chooses you over her, what will you have? A guy who
will lie and cheat on you with whoever else he finds more desireable,
w/o the decency or conscience to 'fess up and end it with you. And
if he doesn't, then you're just a f*ck-buddy. Good luck, either way.

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